Building Communication with Nonverbal Children

When a child is nonverbal, it’s easy to feel unsure about how to connect or help them express their needs. But here’s the truth: every child communicates, even if they aren’t using words yet.

At Essential Speech and ABA Therapy, we believe that communication is not limited to speech. It includes gestures, signs, pictures, devices, eye gaze, and more. Our job is to meet each child where they are and help them find their voice, whatever that looks like.

Communication is More Than Words

Children who are nonverbal often communicate through behaviors: reaching, crying, pulling your hand, or even walking away. These are all forms of communication; they're just not yet shaped into more functional forms.

We don’t wait for speech to begin before we start teaching communication. Instead, we help children learn that communication is powerful and worth it. That might start with a simple picture exchange, a sign for “more,” or learning to press a button on a communication device.

Our Approach to Building Communication

We tailor communication strategies to each child’s strengths and needs. These may include:

• AAC systems (like iPads or speech-generating devices)

• PECS (Picture Exchange Communication System)

• Sign language or simple hand gestures

• Vocal approximations and modeling sounds

• Natural Environment Teaching to encourage real-world communication

• Motivating activities to prompt communication attempts

We start with what the child wants snacks, toys,or songs and use that motivation to build early requesting skills. Over time, those requests turn into longer interactions, more independence, and stronger social connections.

Parents Are the Most Important Partners

One of the most effective ways to build communication is through consistent support at home. We work closely with caregivers to teach communication strategies that can be used during daily routines like meals, bath time, and play.

Even small changes, like waiting for a child to request instead of anticipating their need, can open the door to meaningful communication growth.

Final Thoughts

Being nonverbal doesn’t mean a child has nothing to say. It simply means they need support finding the right way to say it.

At Essential Speech and ABA Therapy, we believe every child deserves to be heard. With the right tools, consistency, and collaboration, we can help your child build communication skills that lead to confidence, connection, and lifelong learning.